Where I’ve Been and Stand

caWith not posting for about a month I have gotten questions of where I have been and why. In short, life has been crazy this past month. Finishing my 25th lap around the sun and promotion, not to mention the Read more…


Dealing with Anxiety

Anxiety seems like it’s the thing that knits all of us millennials together. It is a cruel thing to deal with and it’s unfortunate. One of my favorite quotes is ” Your mental health isn’t your fault but they are Read more…


What is Kinky?

Working at a sex shop I get to see a wide variety of how people view and what they think about sex in general. However we are going to be focusing on what is kinky. First we are going to Read more…


My Self-care Routine

In learning to love myself I also learned how to care for myself. Self-care is something I believe any and everyone should do. After all, RuPaul said it best “If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love Read more…


Masturbation Can Be Mutual

Everyone has heard the term masturbation. The first time ever really hearing it and understanding it for me was in Rent. You heard me the musical Rent. However, we aren’t here for musicals we are here for sex and specifically Read more…


Learning to Love Myself

Learning to love myself has been a long road. It will continue to be a journey throughout my life as we are always changing. The goal is to be improving as we change. Life likes to throw us curve balls Read more…


Sex Toys: The Basics

There are sex toys for everything and everyone. We will not be referring to gender when talking about what we are stimulating to include everyone. So using the anatomical words to describe the body part such as penis or vagina. Read more…


Portland’s Naked Bike Ride

By far one of the most “Portland” things I have done is the naked bike ride. Not everyone rides for the same reason but there is one common theme everyone is some form of naked. The naked bike ride is Read more…


Keeping Things Fresh

When you are in a long term relationship sometimes you need some help keeping things fresh. As always sex is a personal preference. You’ll need to find not only works for you and your partner but what works for the Read more…


Breaking Taboos of Sex

We all know that sex is a taboo thing especially here in the US. In my post about why sex shouldn’t be taboo, we covered why it shouldn’t, and here we are breaking taboos. Sex is natural and it’s not Read more…