My Favorite Lubricant Brands

Having covered the basics of lubricant let’s talk about personal favorites. Working in a sex shop I have gotten to try a wide variety of lubes. To refresh there are three main types water-based, silicone, and hybrids. All types have Read more…


2020 Let’s Not Meet Again

2020 was a hell of a year. That may even be an understatement. Not everything about the past 366 days has been terrible but it hasn’t been the year any of us hoped for! Personally, I enjoy reflecting on where Read more…


Consent Isn’t Optoinal

Something that has come to light in the past years is consent. Now that sounds odd that the topic is just coming a common one in the USA.  The #MeToo movement has made leaps and bounds of bringing to light Read more…


Beyond Penetration: Sensual Play and Intimacy

Most porn focuses on one main thing, penetration. However, with couples, this is often not always or even ever going to be the focus. Often forgotten is the sensual side of pleasure. Let’s start off with a few of the Read more…


You Can Cum if You Want To

Let’s talk orgasms! First, off they don’t have to happen to have a good time. Secondly, this can look different every time and with every person. I feel like society puts so much pressure on “getting off”. However, that’s not Read more…


All About My Tattoos

For as long as I can remember I was always interested in tattoos. How they looked, what they were of, if they hurt, and more. When I first started getting tattoos I wanted them all to have meaning and couldn’t Read more…


Anal Basics For Beginners

A lot of people have had not the best first experience(s) that’s okay but if you want to that doesn’t have to only be that first time. Anal play can be stimulating and very enjoyable; no matter what anatomy you Read more…


Shopping Local Is Better

Shopping is part of our everyday lives whether it’s online, at a mall, department store, or local business we have to do it at some point. Trying to support local is something I started doing early on. Growing up in Read more…


My Patio Garden Adventure

Hiding among the flowers

One of the best parts of this summer was planting a patio garden with my partner.  Trips to local garden centers numerous plants killed and some that thrived. It’s not the easiest trying to have a garden on a patio. Read more…


Pleasuring Someone With a Penis

Eggplant collage

To make this the most accessible I can I will be saying Penis in regards to the body part it’s self so that no matter what you or a partner identify as this can be useful to more people. As Read more…