Why I Became a Sex Coach
In order to know why I am here, we should talk about how I got here and the journey that brought me to this decision. In high school, I was a devout Christian and no I am no longer a believer and unapologetically sex-positive. Things have changed alot over the years. It took years of working on myself and finding others who helped me along the jouney and empowered me to be my best self. After an abusive relationship and losing who I was, self reflection was inevitable. Lost I had to find who I was, who I wanted to be and where I wanted to go. At first that took me to moving out of the country to help find myself.
Moving abroad was one of the best things that I have done for healing and my self-love journey. Before I left I had just begun learning how to find my self-worth and love from within. Moving 6000 miles away from my support system definitely kicked that into high drive. I went on dates by myself because I wanted to try them and had no one to go with. I learned to ask for what I needed and got to take time and get to know myself again. While in Germany I also learned that I no longer wanted to go back into teaching and actually started my bachelor’s in business management. That is before I got my job at the boutique sex shop I manage now. I got my job and continued my classes until I was promoted and started working full time. I finished out the term and then stopped schooling and focused on building a life for myself where I was. I moved out and found friends locally. Then the pandemic hit in 2020 and as happy as I was I felt very unsure about my future as most people did.
Once the pandemic hit I had already fallen in love with the sex industry and so I researched other careers within it. I knew that I don’t want to work retail forever and I found sex education. I took my first boot camps on sex education and making a career out of it so I started rebranding and switched greats from a lifestyle blog to accessible sex education. That was going great and I enjoyed it but around summer I found my now mentor Jocelyn Silva and the world of sex coaching. After following quite a few coaches and doing more research I knew that I wanted to be a sex coach. Now we are making that dream come true!
No, that we got the how out of the way lets talk about why I am here. Something I learned after changing careers was that I just really loved helping people and empowering them to do things and reach goals. Whether it be through teaching or being a sex educator and coach. As a coach, I help women and femmes feel sexually empowered and heal their relationships with sex and intimacy. On my own journey of self-love, sexual empowerment and letting go of the shame that was taught to me and the self-hate I had learned. By learning what I liked and what I needed, liked and wanted, it helped me learn how to love myself again and heal my relationship with my body, sex, love, and intimacy. Sexual empowerment is something that I will always be thankful for and that’s why I am a sex coach. To help others along their sexual empowerment journey.
